What to do when 💩 hits the fan


I just finished my first real speaking event! But I almost didn't make it to stage...

The past 2 days I was out sick with an awful stomach bug.

I was pretty bummed because I had planned to host a live Identity Activation yesterday for 50 women, and I was worried I wouldn't feel ok for this speaking event.

Felt like everything was crashing at once.
Looping thoughts. Couldn't sleep.

My anxiety was on high alert.

I decided to surrender. What was meant to be, would be.

Before I went to bed, I prayed I'd wake up feeling better.

I tapped into the feeling of "it's already done", feeling like the event went so smoothly. I envisioned waking up with a fresh wave of energy.

And then it happened.

Today, I felt better just in time to show up to speak on the Career & Lifestyle Design Panel at Nomad Week in Cape Town.

The panel was a blast... and because I had to reschedule the event to Monday the 2nd, I got to invite every woman in the room building her soul-aligned business, brand, and life to attend my activation too!!

Win-win-win.

Life has a funny way of alwayyyys working out. Especially when you let go of your tight grip of controlling every step and surrender to the flow.

I share this to remind you:

When it looks like things are falling apart, sometimes they're simply clicking together.

"This or something better"

Remember that next time 💩 hits the fan.

You got this,

P.S. If you are a powerhouse woman building your dream business, brand, & life ready to go 10x bigger in 2026 → you want to be there on Monday Feb 2nd. In this 90-minute identity activation, I'll help you connect with your future self so you can create your wildest dream life with more ease, conviction, and aliveness. It's going to set the tone for the rest of your year.

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